At ABC Nannies, we work with families who often know that they need help at home but are not always sure what type of roles or where to start. Do you need a Newborn Care Specialist or would an experienced nanny with strong newborn experience be a better fit? Will a family assistant make your daily life run more smoothly, or is a household manager the answer to your family’s needs? There’s no one size fits all solution as every family has their own unique routines, priorities, and challenges.
Today, we are going to break down the most popular household employee roles we place and how each one can support your home and lifestyle. We’ll go through the following household staffing roles and responsibilities:
- Nanny
- Family Assistant
- Personal Assistant
- Housekeeper
- Household manager
- Estate manager
- Private chef
- Meal prep chef
Household Staffing Roles and Responsibilities
The right household staff does more than help with tasks. They bring peace of mind, consistency, and balance to your home, allowing your family to enjoy life with less stress and more time together.
Nanny
A professional nanny is dedicated to providing attentive, consistent childcare in your home. This role is centered entirely around your children’s daily needs. Their responsibilities include supporting routines, school preparation, developmental activities, meal prep for the children, and light child-related household tasks. A nanny offers dependable, long-term support, helping to maintain the consistency and structure that families value in their daily routines.
Family Assistant
A family assistant blends the roles of a nanny and a household manager. It’s typically a 50/50 split between childcare and household support, making it a great option for busy families with school-aged children. Family assistants often help with school drop-offs and pickups, homework support, errands, light housekeeping, meal prep, and more.
Personal Assistant
A personal assistant does not assist with childcare, but instead is focused on organizing the day-to-day details of life, such as calendar management, researching and making travel arrangements, scheduling appointments, and household coordination. This role allows you to spend less time juggling tasks and more time focusing on work and family.
Housekeeper
A professional housekeeper provides consistent care for your home, keeping it clean, organized, and running smoothly week after week. In addition to deep cleaning and weekly/monthly/quarterly household projects,, housekeepers also help organize and maintain household routines.
Household Manager
For larger or more active households, a household manager may be a great fit! Household managers oversee staff, manage schedules, coordinate vendors, and handle household projects or events. They are the trusted household expert who ensures everything behind the scenes is taken care of, and the home is operating efficiently.
Estate Manager
An estate manager provides high-level oversight for large properties and/or multiple residences. This role includes staff supervision, property maintenance, budgeting, and long-term planning.
Private Chef
A private chef offers the luxury of personalized, home-cooked meals without the stress of daily cooking. From menu planning to grocery shopping to kitchen cleanup, private chefs tailor every meal to your family’s tastes, preferences ,and dietary needs.
Meal Prep Chef
A meal prep chef provides the support of a Private Chef, but instead of cooking meals fresh daily, they come to your home 2-4 times per week, leaving your refrigerator stocked with fresh, ready-to-eat meals for you to cook or reheat at your convenience.
How to Choose the Right Household Employee for your Family
After 30+ years supporting families, I can honestly say every family’s needs are unique. At ABC, our placement specialists are experts at helping families identify their needs, determining the level of support needed, and crafting a clear job description to attract the ideal candidates for the role.
For example, what tasks would you happily outsource, and which do you wish you had more time for? You may enjoy cooking dinner for your family, but the tedious task of grocery shopping and time-consuming school pickups make nightly meal prep feel rushed and stressful. Rather than hiring a full-time chef, a family assistant may be the best fit as they can take care of the grocery shopping, pick up the children after school, and help with homework, so you have ample time to prepare a healthy dinner for your family.
We guide families through this process by listening closely to their routines, challenges, and long-term goals. When you work with a professional household staffing agency such as ABC Nannies, you gain guidance, support, and access to carefully screened candidates who are matched specifically to your household’s needs and expectations. Rather than struggling to hire for months, our clients often hire the ideal household employee in 2-3 weeks!
Discover the ABC Nannies difference. With over 30 years of proven success, ABC connects exceptional nannies and household staff with local families who value professionalism, reliability and top-notch care.
- If you found this article useful, you might also enjoy this: What is a Household Employee?
- If you’re a family looking to hire a nanny, we’d love to help. Complete our Family Application here.
- If you’re a candidate looking for your next position, apply here.


